Hi Annesa
I dont know the guest house you are talking about so wont comment on it. There are a few good ones there. One of the other forum regulars recommend the Seebreeze in Patong.
If you stay in Patong which is where I would stay (and do) if I was you, you will have no trouble meeting people. The Aussie bar is always a good starting point. as are the Irish bars.
As for saftey, I can honestly say I have never felt unsafe in Patong, although I travel with other I often am on my own as well including walking up Bangla road at night. Obviously you dont want to be silly, if out at night stay where there are lots of people, what your drinks, and dont get out of control. Really same as you would at home or anywhere else in the world.
Anything you want to know just ask someone on this forum will know an answer!!
Michelle
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